Usually when I write this blog, I’m ranting and raving about
some sort of political chicanery that’s taking place in our country. But with
the last few days I have suddenly discovered that there are more important
things than politics and it seems that occasionally we have to stop and take a
look at and wonder about it all.
Let me
tell you the story of an 85-year-old man who during his life accomplished many
great things that would help just about everybody in this country. He started
out as an electrical engineer and he created things with electronics that touch
our lives on a day-to-day basis. In his young days he started out working for
Bell aircraft in White Sands New Mexico, where he was a part of the X 15
project. Later when Bell aircraft close down its operations here in New Mexico,
he went to work for the electronics lab in White Sands missile Range. Among the
many things that he accomplished while working there was the basic layout and
plans for the VCR, which played a major role in entertainment both
professionally and in the home. I forgot to mention that while working for
White Sands. He also was sent to NASA a Cape Canaveral, Florida, now Cape
Kennedy (or is a Cape Canaveral again? They keep changing it so it’s hard to
keep up with), where he designed the world’s first plug and play circuitry
systems. Later in life he took a job as the chief administrator for Texas
A&M University’s oceanographic laboratories, in Panama City, Florida. I
remember those years with a great deal of fondness because during the summers I
used to go visit him and see things that I’ve never seen before having been
raised in the deserts of New Mexico and Arizona. After that he worked for a
company called Marine acoustical services, where he developed a small portable
radio that specifically tuned into all the weather notification channels. This
was a boon to sailors everywhere around the world and helped save many lives.
After spending several years at MAS, he decided to go into business for himself
and he and his partner began to develop what he called Ferro-cement boat hulls
which eventually became the basis for free-form housing and construction.
After
several years of this, he decided to sell out his portion of the company and
returned to the state of Arizona where he helped his father who was a land
developer and eventually ran to become a member of the Arizona state
legislature. While a member of the legislature. He accomplished many things for
his state and for other states also. He was the very first individual to pass a
bill within the Arizona state legislature to remove sales tax from all food
items, shortly thereafter almost 15 states followed his lead.
I tell
you these things because I want you to know that this man touched many lives
and did great things. But at the same time you have to be aware that he was a
man and like most men had his own foibles, and problems. That doesn’t mean that
he was any less great. Nor does it mean that he was an individual that deserved
any more recognition than what I am giving him here in this blog. But I do want
you to know the man.
Like
most of us, as time passes, he got old and along with old age comes the
maladies that many have to face as they age. The one thing about him, though,
was that as his body began to deteriorate. His mind remained as sharp and
cognitive as ever. The only problem was that with weakness he had a tendency to
fall and injure himself a great deal. The State of Arizona has a law that
specifically was meant to help and protect the elderly, but one of the problems
with this law is that it removes the dignity and independence of those who have
known nothing else their entire lives. As time passed, the falls became more
and more frequent, and two of his children who were caring for him decided that
the only option for them was to place him in an assisted living facility. You
see, he had fallen one more time and broken four ribs, and the hospital decided
that he could no longer take care of himself and they refused to release him to
go back to his home, his memories, his independence, and his life. In essence
what they did was they shelved him, so that they would not have to take time
out of their lives to care for this old gentleman who did so much for them and
for others.
I guess
that what I’m trying to say with all of this is that sometimes we have to take
a step back and look at the things that really truly important in our lives. We
have to give some thought to those who lead the way in our country. Sometimes
it’s important for us to look back on the contributions made by family members
to the history of the family and not only to our country for their story is the
story of our nation and it is them who have made our nation great. I entreat
all of you to look at the elderly and your family and sit down with them and
talk to them about the things that were important to them and important to your
family. I discovered a long time ago that sometimes the everyday things that
take place ultimately affect not only the family but the world around the
family, and creating the people that we deal with on a day-to-day basis. It is
also these people who help shape America and who help shape our everyday lives.
I also
ask you to remember that there will come a time in your life if you are
fortunate enough to live to be 85 years old when you will most probably
experience what this gentleman is experiencing, and understand the pain, the
depression, and the indignity we inflict upon the elderly. Give a great deal of
thought to this, the time will come, let’s just hope that America will begin to
realize and understand that it is these individuals who have made this country
great, and who deserve better than what they’ve been given.
I love you Dad.
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